Physically, Mentally and Psychologically.
Yep, she isn't..
The first time I found out that she'll be our Personality Development Instructor my first impression was...
Ow? Really? She is going to help us develop our personality?
(then I looked at her from head to foot then back.. with brows slightly..umm..super arching)
she's OLD.. she smells like OLD... She has a dyed hair, blonde mind you... and she wears sunglasses inside air conditioned room...
So, I can take that.. who knows maybe she's good inside right? It's just the appearance..maybe I was decieved by her looks.. And I don't judge that instant...
After a few days in her class, we we're having dificulties in understanding her discussions...the way she speaks and explains.
" the... um.. the... (snaps her fingers or stomps her foot) the..."
(more minutes until she remembers what she's trying to say.)
That doesn't matter much to me... Because our student-intstructor relationship is ok, I respect her as an instructor and she treats me right, nothing is beyond limits...
But a few hours ago, she started to notice one of my classmates who is well, she's not actually in her proper self.. ( What I mean in "not in proper self" - her hair is tied way over the top of her head with strands falling here and there, her clothes were like what-you-wear-at-home, she wore slippers-not the stylish one.So, "proper self" in short - the way a person should look at a specific place.)
she became mad at that person and started noticing other students. She began looking for our combs, asked if we clipped our fingernails, she started to comment on us.
That part was understandable, She's our PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT Instructor right? She should be the one taking care of that, how we look, physically.
But, after that she made some nasty comments, pointing out students who are older than others and mocking and insulting them?
So, she thinks she helped these persons to develop their personality? It's a BIG NO NO NO.
Mocking and insulting person in front of others disintegrates confidence. How in the world can she help us develop our personality?
I am not some perfect person, I don't have any masteral degrees, I even made so many mistakes in my life BUT I never insult people and embarass them in front of their peers. I know what things can hurt people and I don't step on their egos...
It's not in my personality to say bad things to others but when they get through my nerves, well, I am one evil person...For that one, I say she's so abnormal and she's a witch...
To be sooooooo honest, she looks like this...
(comparison without consideration of her feelings, just like what she did..)
You wouldn't think she's a PERSONALITY DEVELOMENT right??? Good, I really don't think so too...
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